Epictetus opens the Handbook with a split you can use before any advice. Judgement, desire, and refusal are up to you. Your body, your reputation, and other people's choices are not. A second line says people are disturbed by the judgements they add, not by events alone. Put the two together. Name what happened, then name the sentence you added. Both cards are marked paraphrase or translation, because Arrian took the notes in Greek. Treat them as an exercise, not as a poster.
“Some things are up to us and some are not. Up to us are judgement, impulse, desire, aversion — in a word, whatever is our own doing. Not up to us are our body, our property, reputation, office — in a word, whatever is not our own doing.”