Quotation
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“Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”
Confucius · Confucianism · Ancient · modern proverb, not 5th century BCE
What does it mean?
Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. The sentence is not in the Analects. It is a modern proverb, sometimes dressed as East Asian wisdom. A rival reading says the warning is sound, revenge can destroy the avenger, so the false antiquity is decorative. The proverb is cruder than the Analects, which discuss how to answer injury without this image. Analects 14.34 is a nuanced exchange, and it is a different argument. Wisdom traditions attract proverbs the way airports attract slogans.
Did Confucius really say this?
The library’s label is Misattributed. This is not in the Analects or other early Confucian texts. It is a modern proverb, sometimes dressed up as Japanese or Chinese wisdom. Confucius does warn against repayng injury with injury in a simple way (Analects 14.34 is a nuanced exchange), which is a different argument.
Where it comes from
No passage in the Analects; a modern proverb
Approximate date: modern proverb, not 5th century BCE.
How to use it
If you are tempted by revenge, you do not need a fake ancient authority to pause. Ask what second grave you are digging, in your own words, after a slight in a family or a workplace in Birmingham. Look up Analects 14.34 if you want the tradition's actual conversation. The pause can be yours without the costume.
A mindset reading
A matching mood is not a source. The proverb can be good advice and still be a false quotation. Those two judgements are compatible, which is the point of keeping the card.
Understand the philosophy
Comparing this line with the Analects is a practical lesson in tone and evidence. The real exchange is harder to put on a mug, which is why the mug found another sentence and gave it an old name.
- ethics
- self
- justice
FAQ
What does it mean?
Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. The sentence is not in the Analects. It is a modern proverb, sometimes dressed as East Asian wisdom. A rival reading says the warning is sound, revenge can destroy the avenger, so the false antiquity is decorative. The proverb is cruder than the Analects, which discuss how to answer injury without this image. Analects 14.34 is a nuanced exchange, and it is a different argument. Wisdom traditions attract proverbs the way airports attract slogans.
Did Confucius really say this?
Misattributed. This is not in the Analects or other early Confucian texts. It is a modern proverb, sometimes dressed up as Japanese or Chinese wisdom. Confucius does warn against repayng injury with injury in a simple way (Analects 14.34 is a nuanced exchange), which is a different argument.
Which work is it in?
No passage in the Analects; a modern proverb Approximate date: modern proverb, not 5th century BCE.