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“Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.”
Simone Weil · Moral philosophy · Modern · 1942
What does it mean?
Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity. Giving someone your attention, without grabbing, fixing, or spending them on your project, is rarer than money or advice. A rival reading says this flatters a quiet temperament and ignores generosity that pays the rent or takes the shift. She is not ranking those gifts out of existence. She is naming a form that looks like nothing and costs the ego its rehearsal. In her religious writing, attention is also how one waits upon God. The letter can be read on its own.
Did Simone Weil really say this?
The library’s label is Paraphrase or translation. From Weil's letter to the poet Joë Bousquet. The French is L'attention est la forme la plus rare et la plus pure de la générosité. This is the standard English. It is a letter, later published in their correspondence, not a line from a self-help book.
Where it comes from
Letter to Joë Bousquet, 13 April 1942
Approximate date: 1942.
How to use it
In the next conversation that matters, at a kitchen table in Coventry or on a ward, practise attention that does not rehearse your reply. She thinks that is a moral act, not a communication technique. The person may still need practical help. Attention is not a substitute for the help. It is a test of whether the help is using them.
A mindset reading
The sentence is from a letter to Joë Bousquet, April 1942, not from a self-help book. Attention in the notebooks is the opposite of muscular will. Do not make the letter carry the whole theology unless you are willing to read it.
Understand the philosophy
Much of Weil was published after her death. A letter and a notebook entry selected by someone else are not the same kind of object. This line is the letter. Gravity and Grace is the selection. Keep the citations apart.
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FAQ
What does it mean?
Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity. Giving someone your attention, without grabbing, fixing, or spending them on your project, is rarer than money or advice. A rival reading says this flatters a quiet temperament and ignores generosity that pays the rent or takes the shift. She is not ranking those gifts out of existence. She is naming a form that looks like nothing and costs the ego its rehearsal. In her religious writing, attention is also how one waits upon God. The letter can be read on its own.
Did Simone Weil really say this?
Paraphrase or translation. From Weil's letter to the poet Joë Bousquet. The French is L'attention est la forme la plus rare et la plus pure de la générosité. This is the standard English. It is a letter, later published in their correspondence, not a line from a self-help book.
Which work is it in?
Letter to Joë Bousquet, 13 April 1942 Approximate date: 1942.